Индия-Пакистан

Любовь делится на три периода (года):

- в 1 год говорят: "Если ты уйдешь, я не буду жить."
- во 2 год говорят: "Если ты уйдешь, то мне будет больно, но я выживу."
- на 3 год говорят: "Если ты уйдешь, я обмою это шампанским".

i meet y girlfriend exactly three years back today. we had some fight as normal couple do., but lately she has been saying theses to me when ever we have fight. i dont know who has feed this in her mind, she is totaly over it. past few days she is angry on me. i was wrong. and i am sorry for that. now when ever i try so say i am sorry, her answer to this: love lives 3 year. frankly speaking i dont see any truth in this as long as u love the person.

And what are trying to say by that? That you and your girlfriend are breaking up and you are putting blame on some stupid saying???

Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater.

If you give her a house, she'll give you a home.
If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal.
If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart.

A woman multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.

Why is this important for every man to know?

Because if you give her any crap, you need to be ready to receive a ton of shit in return

Кайф!

Mumtaz,

Mumtaz,
Super!

Мумтаз молодец!
А етто не муж той девушки которая под 3-икса зарег-сь?

no we not breaking up.

then whats the problem?

1 year-love
2 year kooking
3 year--bebi

what's next?

vinny, repeat the cycle

we dont have problem in relations due to this thought.
just i was wandering, what other think about it/?

Ah, OK then... We had a little bit of misunderstanding here I think, sorry... About the saying, I truly believe it's a BS...

This phrase is a quote from Frédéric Beigbeder's "L'amour dure trois ans (Love Lasts Three Years)". The saying is nothing but personal opinion of the author, and since such phrases sound "smart" and "philosophic" for young people, his books find lots of fans. I do not like this author for I do not find there much of things to correspond to my point of view in his books.

ну видимо second baby

Why not second wife ?

тут нужен смайлик со скалкой...

Have never heard of that.
Love can live as long as we are able to keep it alive...

even i belive in this..........

this is wide-spread theory i think but its only one among many
im sorry for my english
maybe she has read anywhere this phrase and it is about her feeling or somebody has told her about it
she is offended may be thats why she is repeating this phrase

ya her friend advised her this book. and no prob,lem with language. i belive language is for conveying yours thought. i got them thts what matter, and than my russian is also worst))))

YES, YES, YES, it's a BS!!!
I also wanted to express the same but didn't...

GOOD FOR YOU!!!
And good luck for keeping your love alive as long as you want to...

We hope that if someone loves us they are not gonna hurt us...and we think if someone hurts us then they don't love us.

If in three years you are not closer to marriage, as I assume, she has got all the rights to go mad. And you are the cause.
And I can assure you, that more "stupid sayings" will follow...

If nil has not proposed these three years then its his outlook. May be he's not sure that the girl is right stuff for his wife !? If he has not proposed or not promised her happy marriage in future then he can not be blamed for her being mad. She can well ask him about his plans in regards to her and put her foot down to insist on marriage. If she's not done so far then she has to blame herself !

P.S. If I had promised or proposed to all girls with whom I used to be in relationship over the years, I would have been in Guinness Book long ago as most extensively married guy "in town" !

И самый скромный, i assume

nil, с Днем Рождения Желаю большой и долгой любви

Ну так, а мы для чего здесь? Научим

What a shame you are not in Guinness Book!!!

Let's hear , what he has to say on the matter...(а потом послушаем адвоката... )

...May be in the lunatic asylum it just got faster... (in your case)..

What got faster ? Course of relationships or intercourse ?

Off course.

we are engaged, and soon we are getting married. just few things have to workout( offcourse not in realtionship), usual things. so matter to think about she is right for me , is davno reshnio. we are just waiting ... to get married.

Good luck and all the best!!!

Well, maybe you show little interest in wedding plans? Then she can get pretty hysterical: there are so many details to worry about!
You didn't say whether you live together. If so, you maybe starts to miss your freedom and want more space? (going out with the guys, working late) and then you get hurt?
I think, the relationship is like job, we have to work for it and make it better all the time People who are too lazy to try will drift apart...

But my book(ings) still open !

At present we are in differnet countries, she is in moscow and me in india. both have dregrees to finish. the time we were together, we hardly had anyfights. its just distance create the unsatisfaction, and emotions take over. and there you are alone thinking of time to pass bye.

In a way it's true. but only in a way, cause it's not love that ends, but passion. If there was nothing else but passin between the two... they are doomed for break up.

what stands for BS?

bullshit

+1

Я так поняла, что у парня и нет никаких проблем, просто, поговорить захотелось: "emotions take over" .

No global problems just a tiny lil one -)

looks like manipulation

Yes you are right. problem is solved. just wanted to talk about it

So nice to hear

And easy to wear - на уши !